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mattmatt12
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Its not a relationship if he spils soft drink all over her and laughs.

Talk to me if something happends.
02/06/2008
Animal Crossing: Wild World
Australia/ Sydney
jons2ann
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This is probably the worst or best advice you could ever get from anyone --- pretty much because it only works for me.

Just play video games and all your troubles go away.
02/06/2008
clayton, melbourne, victoria
nannda
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chambalam said: I can't remember the last relationship that lasted when the 2 people had barely touched base.



Something might eventually happen if you let it go on like you said "Friendship is the basis of Relationship" It would hurt more if you had a gf and she broke up with you which you later find out she broke up with you because she was already "seeing" somebody else while you were still with her. Wouldn't that be like sharing her with another guy while you believed that she only "loved" you?
02/06/2008
melbourne, victoria
jons2ann
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mattmatt12 said:
But she doesn't like him cause he does bad things like spils soft drink on her. So its not really a realationship.



I think you are a bit too premature to understand relationships mate. If she really doesn't like him then she will dump him COMPLETELY. End of story. It is still a relationship if they both agree to be together, even if she has to put up with him. That, by definition, is their relationship.
02/06/2008
clayton, melbourne, victoria
mattmatt12
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I not going to say any more.
02/06/2008
Animal Crossing: Wild World
Australia/ Sydney
Djinni
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I'll just say this. I personally think that all this fuss over a girl isn't worth it.
02/06/2008
Sydney, NSW
adommer
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I sort of don't know what to do as get al this advice inw hich I don't know which one to follow. I'm just gonna do what i did sueally. be freinds with her. that is it. If he does something wrong to her i can't do anything about it. I have to know that it isn't my problem. And if it hurts i'll go play video games.
02/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
nannda
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You're seem really cute and nice adommer, I'm sure you will have a great gf one day. Bright side of not being in a relationship is you get to save a lot of money hehe, plus sometimes having a gf takes up a lot of time and maybe if you get a gf you will be wishing for more time for yourself and games hehehe. Hope everything will be alright though
02/06/2008
melbourne, victoria
adommer
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nannda said: You're seem really cute and nice adommer, I'm sure you will have a great gf one day. Bright side of not being in a relationship is you get to save a lot of money hehe, plus sometimes having a gf takes up a lot of time and maybe if you get a gf you will be wishing for more time for yourself and games hehehe. Hope everything will be alright though


But if you saw this girl she is really beautiful. and probly the only good looking girl who doesn't look at her self every five mins. And do you mean cute as in the psycological way or physical way.
02/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
nannda
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But if you saw this girl she is really beautiful. and probly the only good looking girl who doesn't look at her self every five mins. And do you mean cute as in the psycological way or physical way.



hehehehe awww. Cute as in you got a cute personality hehe. Maybe she will leave him one day because he sounds like an idiot, she might already even like you. But it's kinda complicated when she still has a boyfriend. I can't really say much, I guess the most you can do is do what you believe is right. We can all chip in with advices, but everyone is different and has something different to say, so in the end you have too many options which kinda makes things kinda confusing T_T But I really hope things will be all right with you, you guys are still young, no need to rush hihihi
02/06/2008
melbourne, victoria
chambalam
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That's why I still say hang around as a good friend.

When it finally crashes for good you're in the prime.
02/06/2008
Ballina, the land of....nowhere
adommer
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chambalam said: That's why I still say hang around as a good friend.
When it finally crashes for good you're in the prime.


yeah but it is good to have a relationshipwhen you are young. You sort of learn what to do when with a girl and what not to do with a girl.
02/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
brawl4all
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yea, cham's right, it can't be put in a better words than that.
02/06/2008
New Super Mario Bros
land of the free, home of the brave
chambalam
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adommer said:

chambalam said: That's why I still say hang around as a good friend.

When it finally crashes for good you're in the prime.



yeah but it is good to have a relationshipwhen you are young. You sort of learn what to do when with a girl and what not to do with a girl.



I really hate to repeat myself But please guys think about it.

You want a good relationship, or a great relationship? I don't want a relationship I know will crash in a few months because we weren't close enough before hand.

It's a slow process "Take it slow" they say. I took it slow, so very slow, be nice, write her a poem, once you are in the friend area, and YES, YOU ARE RIGHT, even though you don't want to be in the friend circle, think of it like a safe zone.

Get upto best friend, then when the time is right, show her some small amounts of love (i wrote my gf a speech) and just take it slow from there.

I can't even explain it
02/06/2008
Ballina, the land of....nowhere
adommer
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chambalam said:


adommer said:


chambalam said: That's why I still say hang around as a good friend.
When it finally crashes for good you're in the prime.


yeah but it is good to have a relationshipwhen you are young. You sort of learn what to do when with a girl and what not to do with a girl.


I really hate to repeat myself



Cham you couldn't explainit any more better. i use that process but in the end it stuffs up/,
02/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
shyguy16
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ok dont take any infomation from me cos i got dumped so yeah
02/06/2008
Final Fantasy III
in kirby's mouth
jons2ann
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Cham, I think his primary goal is just to be with her and take it one day at a time. He doesn't want to think about whether it will be a good relationship or a great one. I think you'll agree with me that no teenager bothers to think that way -- although they should.

His objective now is what is he going to do to succeed in order to make this next stage.

You are already her friend. That's stage one. Now be a good friend and gain her trust. Throw a few laughs and most of all be yourself. If you are yourself, then she will think less critically of you.
03/06/2008
clayton, melbourne, victoria
adommer
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jons2ann said: Cham, I think his primary goal is just to be with her and take it one day at a time. He doesn't want to think about whether it will be a good relationship or a great one. I think you'll agree with me that no teenager bothers to think that way -- although they should.
His objective now is what is he going to do to succeed in order to make this next stage.
You are already her friend. That's stage one. Now be a good friend and gain her trust. Throw a few laughs and most of all be yourself. If you are yourself, then she will think less critically of you.


At school and stuff like that I am myself. Online I'm a 45 yearold lady named Britney.lol Thanks for the advice everyone I really needed it.
03/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
KidFoX
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I'm a nerd, I dont get girlfriend's so i cant help you there
03/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Cumbalum/Ballina NSW
shyguy16
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just get her alone take her to the movies or something
03/06/2008
Final Fantasy III
in kirby's mouth
Cruzan101
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i think u should show her what a real guy is like and do all the things for her u would do if she was real real girlfriend and after she notices how your treating her tell her your feelings and say * I can treat you better than he can and i want to... u deserve the best treatment because you're a princess and u deserve a royal treatment from a real prince so what do u wanna be......a princess or his sausagewallet?"
03/06/2008
in RazorFang's Lair
dossaer
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Forget the girl and concentrate on school. Save your money, go to uni or start a trade, then meet someone, fall in love, have a few kids...

j/k

Just do what you feel is right.
03/06/2008
LEGO Star Wars: The Complete Saga
Sydney, NSW
fundepots
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Let me tell you how you feel, you are just showing your sympathy on that girl.
You like her? oh no man! you are in love with a girl who ignores soft drink split on her face, clothes....?
Next time when you meet the 2 silly kids, just whistle around, "WOW, new way to showing your love, huh?"
03/06/2008
China
sparks001
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I feel for you dude the same thing is happening to me
03/06/2008
Legend of Zelda: Phantom Hourglass, The
philly
slicingman
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If i lived nearby id come and back you up just incase things get nasty. (i can still throw heavy things, like a tv for example that would hurt him) and i usually have something good to say. (comebacks and geeky things like..... "are you inputing my outputs?".) you could pay for a flight and ill come over and give you a hand, and maybe we might have time to play some ds! then again you could get practically everyone on this site to give you a hand by flying over and backing you up. (that would be intimidating) then when we are all done we can all play a hell of a lot of DS. dose the girl in question have a DS?
03/06/2008
Esperance, Western Australia
 
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