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adommer
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adommer says:
Well there is this girl that I really like at school. But, she has this boyfreind she allways breaks up with.


Now the thing is that her boyfriend abuses her. The boyfriend hits her for fun, wets her with sodas for fun & abuses her feelings. Now this girl ( who I like ) allways breaks up with him, the boy allways comes back to her and the cycle repeats. This girl knows that what he does is wrong. Now I like this girl and when me and her talk and all that she seems happy. But I just don't know why she stays with that guy.

Also when I was taking the bus home the girl ( who I like ) tried to avoid the boy. But when he was next to her keept splashing coca cola on her pants. Now since I was in the oppertunity to tell him off I did I said "Whats your problem dude don't you know how to treat a girl". He did it again when just I was about to attack the girl grabbed the boys coca cola she poured it all over him. It was a funny moment.But the most upsetting thing is she still forgave him for his ways.

Now please I need help what should I do in this situation please help is needed.
01/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
Neocloud
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Neocloud says:
Dude,you should get her alone,then tell her how you feel.Ask her if she really likes the guy,then tell the guy to back off if she says no.Tell her you're tired of the way he treats her,and you want to put a stop to what he's doing.That might work out.
01/06/2008
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adommer
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adommer says:

Neocloud said: Dude,you should get her alone,then tell her how you feel.Ask her if she really likes the guy,then tell the guy to back off if she says no.Tell her you're tired of the way he treats her,and you want to put a stop to what he's doing.That might work out.

I have told her why you like that guy. But..................... I havn't told her how i feel. Man I'm a shy person. Also she goes back with the guy the day after. I feel that she doesn't want him and all she does is pretend around him that she likes him.
01/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
Neocloud
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Neocloud says:
Don't worry man,im pretty shy too.But we all have to get past it sometime,especially when its for someone you like.Try to show her that you'd be better for her than he would.
01/06/2008
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adommer
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adommer says:

Neocloud said: Don't worry man,im pretty shy too.But we all have to get past it sometime,especially when its for someone you like.Try to show her that you'd be better for her than he would.


Oh I havn't told you that she isn't alone and hardly is. Because that so called boyfriedn of hers is with hjer 24/7. If i was in his shoes i would give her space. ALOT of space if i was in his shoes.
01/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
Neocloud
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Neocloud says:
You could ask her for her number.
01/06/2008
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Azza123
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Azza123 says:
Tell the boy to get a life, grow up and learn how to treat a girl. Although, that may not work, you may see a fist coming your way....

(How old are you guys?)
01/06/2008
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Neocloud
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Neocloud says:
Im 14.That must mean that you should duck.
01/06/2008
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adommer
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adommer says:
Um i'm 15 and the guy is 15 but the guy is in year 10 and i'm in year 9. But The guy isn't scared of his girlfreind but he is scared of threats from others. Oh and if i chucked a punch on this dude. he won't see life again. I'm 175cm in height and bascily tough. I'm probly the only nerd who looks like what I described myself to be. also the dude is smaller then that girl by like 5cm. I'm atller than both.
01/06/2008
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Sydney, NSW
Azza123
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Azza123 says:

adommer said: Um i'm 15 and the guy is 15 but the guy is in year 10 and i'm in year 9. But The guy isn't scared of his girlfreind but he is scared of threats from others. Oh and if i chucked a punch on this dude. he won't see life again. I'm 175cm in height and bascily tough. I'm probly the only nerd who looks like what I described myself to be. also the dude is smaller then that girl by like 5cm. I'm atller than both.



Well... do what I said... if you want. No violence.

Or/And tell the girl how you feel, she may feel the same way, and then you can work it out from there.
01/06/2008
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DSgame_boy
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DSgame_boy says:
Hey man, I feel for you. It is a bit of a dilemma.

Well from watching lots of cheesy shows that always have a moral, I would say tell her how you feel. And if she feels the same way maybe you two could get together.
The problem with that is that the boyfriend might do something crazy, and you might get beaten up or something (I'm not saying you will).

Yeah good luck with that
01/06/2008
Melbourne,Victoria
ShyGuy
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ShyGuy says:

adommer said:Oh and if i chucked a punch on this dude. he won't see life again. I'm 175cm in height and bascily tough. I'm probly the only nerd who looks like what I described myself to be.


well, aren't you just a tad 2 over confident..
..lol anyways, is she is treated so badly, why does she keep coming back to him? is there a reason that i missed?
01/06/2008
Geelong, Victoria
Neocloud
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Neocloud says:

ShyGuy said:


adommer said:Oh and if i chucked a punch on this dude. he won't see life again. I'm 175cm in height and bascily tough. I'm probly the only nerd who looks like what I described myself to be.


well, aren't you just a tad 2 over confident..
..lol anyways, is she is treated so badly, why does she keep coming back to him? is there a reason that i missed?



I think she just wants to be with someone,so she can say shes got someone.
01/06/2008
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chambalam
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chambalam says:
Hey!

Ok, first of all, you are actually in a really good position in a sense. The easist way to get close to a girl is show them some great feelings... Umm, I'm short on time so I will explain best.

Don't try to directly end it with her and that guy, rather, get to know her (i would use msn, simply because it's safer, but some people disagree).

Ask her about how she feels, let her open up, then go ahead and start telling her **** like "man, if i was lucky enough to have you i would blah blah blah blah".

It might work, it might not. Become her friend, msn is easier to become a friend from scratch, but if you get close on msn, it will **** up when you try to transition phyiscally.

Get close, charm her, let her come to you.
01/06/2008
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ShyGuy
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ShyGuy says:

Neocloud said:
I think she just wants to be with someone,so she can say shes got someone.


uhh.. i doubt that..
and anyway, don't punch him... that's a bad and immature way to settle a dispute.. unless he hits u first
01/06/2008
Geelong, Victoria
Neocloud
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Neocloud says:
Cham has a point!Try to do exactly what he said.Go for both internet and in person chating.
01/06/2008
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slicingman
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slicingman says:
i wish i could stand up to a guy and KO him....... but im a little short and I'm a gamer so i don't have much strength (except in my thumbs no one can beat me in thumb wrestles) i can run like hell tho and talk you to death about games.

just go and say that you like her and punch the guy.
and they all lived happily ever after!
01/06/2008
Esperance, Western Australia
DSgame_boy
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DSgame_boy says:
....yes...Everyone is happy except that guy....
01/06/2008
Melbourne,Victoria
Darminator
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Darminator says:
or pass her my email and we'll see what flies...
01/06/2008
Sydney
slicingman
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slicingman says:

Darminator said: or pass her my email and we'll see what flies...



the internet usage!
01/06/2008
Esperance, Western Australia
shyguy16
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shyguy16 says:
stick up for her no mater wat if he is being a idiot (which he is) just tell him to grow up and stop being such a jerk if he bashers you dont worry about it that girl will no how you feel thats how i ot scarletto because of a jerk and thats why jerks exist so you can stick up for a girl that his treating wrong and then you get the girl in the end
and yes cham is right but i dont like msn it just isnt my thing and i dont think it is a good way to get a girl but you never no but yeah just ask her how she feels about this guy and ask her why she keeps coming back
01/06/2008
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dermy
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dermy says:
Blah, blah, blah.
I've said it once, I'll say it again.
You wont get anywhere with anyone if you ask for advice on a gaming internet forum...
01/06/2008
Melbourne, victoria
johno597
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johno597 says:

adommer said: I have told her why you like that guy. But..................... I havn't told her how i feel. Man I'm a shy person. Also she goes back with the guy the day after. I feel that she doesn't want him and all she does is pretend around him that she likes him.



i kno how hard it can be to tell someone how u feel because u dont want to be rejected and be laughed at by anyone who finds out so i think you shood just take it slowly and stand up for her anyway u can but thats just me hope it works out
01/06/2008
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desi
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desi says:  
Tell her how you feel. It will save you from wondering for the rest of your life.

When you get older you get a lot meaner. I used to be like you, but now I'd give that girl an earful about why the hell she devalues herself by spending time with anyone like that. If there was a fight in it, I'd put a rock in my fist, because that's how I roll now.

But!

When you get to know this girl and she puts on the whole self-pity routine, take it with a grain of salt. My theory is that such girls stay with jerks because they want to attract the pity of others to feel important and have their egos stroked. It's like how you might put a depressed-sounding nickname on your MSN account to see how many people will ask you what's up; to see how many people care.
01/06/2008
Sydney
adommer
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adommer says:

ShyGuy said:

adommer said:Oh and if i chucked a punch on this dude. he won't see life again. I'm 175cm in height and bascily tough. I'm probly the only nerd who looks like what I described myself to be.


well, aren't you just a tad 2 over confident..
..lol anyways, is she is treated so badly, why does she keep coming back to him? is there a reason that i missed?


It wasn't meant in confidence it was to describe.

The girl isn't like that. I sort of think she stays with him because he may be threatening her or something,
01/06/2008
Pokemon Pearl
Sydney, NSW
 
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